“Success is the ability to go from one failure to another
with no loss of enthusiasm.” This is a popular quote that is used to define
success and it is attributed to the great Winston Churchill, who was no
stranger to both failure and success. In the quote, there is no success without
failure. The two go hand in hand, however, failure typically has a negative
association when used in general conversation.
But it doesn’t necessarily have to be negative. At iVBS, we believe that
failure can have positive value for business owners and entrepreneurs. It
really depends on your mindset and your perspective. Here’s some tips for when
you confront failure.
Fear
Fear of failing is something that all of us have. All of us
have egos and all of us fear bruising our egos. That’s why some people never
fulfill the massive potential they have. Fear of embarrassment or public
opinion can paralyze individuals from making decisions that benefit them over
time. Ultimately, as humans, we have to do things that we fear in order to
grow. Fear is the glass ceiling that prevents you from actualizing your dreams.
Accept your fear and recognize that it is integral to finding out who you are
as a person. Take the first step towards confronting failure by accepting it
for what it is.
Failure is not final
An important part of overcoming failure is to remember that failure is not final unless you let it be final. When we fail at something, it’s easy to allow negative self-talk to pervade our future endeavors. It’s critical that you prevent yourself from wallowing in the mentality of “I’m not good enough, I
wasn’t good enough last time so I’m not good enough this time” Failure can be a self-perpetuating cycle and only you have the ability to break the cycle of negativity. When confronted with the prospect of failure, realize that it is a learning opportunity. Failure is only final if you continue to repeat the same mistakes over and over.
Resilience

All entrepreneurs and business owners will have to confront
failure. It is the gatekeeper that prevents you from continuing your
entrepreneurial journey. Accept it, overcome it, and bounce back from it. I’d
love to hear your experience with failure so please submit your stories either
by email or in my comment box. If you’d
like to discuss some strategies on overcoming failure, please don’t hesitate to
schedule a Free 30 Minute Consultation with me on my time trade schedule!
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